Things I learned in year 41:
God uses friendships to encourage our faith.
I’m not an avoider; I am an engager.
Speaking honestly and sharing my desires and preferences is a more loving way to be in a relationship than protecting myself and keeping my thoughts to myself.
I like making pretty things.
Teaching your firstborn to drive is terrifying. But once he gets his license, it’s amazing.
Wearing the same two pair of jeans again and again is better than having 20 that you don’t really love.
Prepackaged food is not as good as homemade.
Except Pop tarts. They are still delicious.
Asking for help is one step. Receiving the help with grace is another. Both are good and necessary and healthy.
Black lives are deeply valuable and the wounds run so much deeper than I ever knew. Listening and learning is heartbreaking and hopeful.
I really enjoy baking.
Clarity is not the ultimate goal. Sure it would be nice, but it would lead to self-reliance and that is definitely not the end goal. Trust is.
Nicely painted nails makes me feel like a grown up.
Filling in your brows makes a big difference.
I can do hard things. We all can.
Beauty matters because it reminds us of God’s goodness.
Seasons of deep, soul-important work are good. So are seasons of rest and gratitude and delightful contentment.
✨ Here’s to another year of growing and learning and embracing and delighting.
So good!!!! Thank you for being so honest and real and sharing your love for Jesus!!! I love reading your posts. It’s gives me encouragement and adds light to my day.
Happy Birthday!
Love this and love how it shows your heart.
Happy Birthday! So thankful you are here, being you.
Happy Birthday, Emily. I’m 72 and I’m still learning to love myself and God more each day! Keep up the good work!
Happy Birthday!
Happy birthday! I’m turning 40 next week, and have thought all year about your 40 before 40 post. This one is one that will stick with me as well – I’ll be coming back to it over the next couple years!
Pop tarts are absolutely delicious, thank you for making them an exception 🙂 Happy Birthday!!
I fully agree on pop tarts! And the other stuff too. Thanks for sharing your heart. I’m making a list of learned specifics this year now. I think it’s a good way God can encourage us that He is ever present and ever working in us for our good and for His glory.
Happy Birthday!! I love hearing what you’ve learned.